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Post by rheytarded on Apr 28, 2007 16:27:09 GMT -4
Its a pretty messy situation to find yourself in - to be in a relationship that is not officially a relationship. By just being in one you create tension and a bit of frustration in a friendship. the intentions might mean well, but the results are disastrous. He/she treats you pretty much the same (or less) because its a non-commitment thing but deep inside you know you want something more. So you start getting upset when he/she does not prioritze you and because of that you start keeping your distance.
He/she starts acting like a jerk...
You have a hard time telling him that he treats you much more less than he did when you were friends... You just want to speak your mind, but you can't because its hard. You can't avoid not seeing each other. You can't drive the person away. But you can't stand being around the person so bad, you want to tear your eyeballs whenever you see them or peirce your ears with an icepick whenever you hear their voice.
No advice needed really. Just your thoughts on the issue... thanks.
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Post by chito08 on May 29, 2007 11:15:15 GMT -4
This relationship is the type that doesn't put the weight of responsibility on the shoulders on both parties. So there is no need to work to make it better or to improve it. Then the best way to face it is to ask yourself of what you expect in this un-official "relationship". Relationships always have something that binds it. What is it that binds you together? Emotions? Religion? Materials? Common Interest? Then if nothing comes to mind. Or that thing that binds you both is gone. Then let it go.
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Post by lws on Jun 5, 2007 16:50:23 GMT -4
is theres a positive value on this kind of relationship?
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Post by rheytarded on Jun 8, 2007 19:50:55 GMT -4
dont really think so... its weird that meron pa ding kumakagat... kainis no? ahhhaa
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Post by ayahtot on Jun 25, 2007 6:52:48 GMT -4
i just wana say. if its not taken seriously.it may not be healthy for both parties
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